When the situation develops in such a way thatto conduct a conversation is not personally, but through a text chat, many girls are lost and do not know what questions one can ask a guy. By correspondence it seems difficult to build a certain line of conversation that goes beyond the banal "Hello, how are you?". However, in fact, it's easy - just take a couple of skills and use some psychological secrets.
Immediately need to make a reservation that correspondence withthe guy can have a different direction. Firstly, sometimes it happens in the form of a friendly chat. Then, as a rule, there are no "neponyatok", which questions can be asked to the guy by correspondence, and what are not. The atmosphere of the conversation itself encourages frankness and honesty between partners. Another thing is if the girl needs to find out some points that may be unpleasant for her online counterpart. For example, where he spent last night or who that long-haired blonde that was seen coming out of his apartment this morning. Of course, all these are topics that should not be touched on, for sooner or later everything will clear up, and it may turn out that there is no crime. But if emotions overwhelm, you have to ask, the main thing is to be careful not to hurt yourself.
To beat in the forehead is a good way of self-defense, but forconversation on souls is not necessary. Therefore, for no reason, for no reason to throw into the partner a question and to expect from him frank recognition - a deliberately losing option. So scrupulous business, how to find out the information you need, requires walking in a roundabout way and the ability to distinguish when you can ask any questions by correspondence. For example, in a situation with a blonde who is seen, it is best to ask if relatives or acquaintances have come to visit, by chance. Although, in extreme cases, if you hate not being able and want to show your awareness, you can lay out the story, necessarily adding something like "in the end, but I know that you are not that kind and all this spreads evil languages, is not it? ". The reaction of the guy will be the most true answer, just pay attention not to his words, namely how fast and with what attitude he will answer you.
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If you and your interlocutor are presentemotional intimacy, then it will not be difficult to find the right time for a conversation. You will definitely feel when he is annoyed, dissatisfied or tired and just does not want to spend the rest of his energy on the thought process. In such moments it is better to keep from questioning. Otherwise, the result is a clear reluctance to continue the conversation (at best) or uncovered lies (as the worst option). It is most appropriate to start a verbal attack, when the guy is relaxed and set to positive. It's easy to understand that this is the right moment for you, it's easy to write a couple of neutral phrases, and if the conversation "glitters" well, it's a sign that the hour has come, and you can ask a question that revolves around in your head.
Now you know exactly which questions you canask a guy by correspondence and how to evaluate what he will write in response. True, there is one small BUT - everything in the world is individual and one can not take to heart any delays in the answers or the words that you would like to read. All this can have a completely different meaning than the one that you invested.
